Is this guy playing mind games? Help from guys especially?

Well it seems that there is relay not a relationship hap pining here, so I wouldn't be too concerned about it. Let things happen naturally and do not try to force them. This will let you see things from another perspective and a more open mind. If it is meant to be, it will be. Love is something that happens and you can not learn to love someone. In other words you do not choose who you love. Love chooses you.